ingratiate
Definitions
To make yourself liked by someone, especially by flattering or pleasing them deliberately.
刻意讨好；逢迎，博取好感。
Root Breakdown
Root-derivedHere in- means 'into,' not 'not.' in- (into) + grat/gratia (favor) + -ate (verb) = 'to put oneself into someone's favor.' It comes from the Italian phrase in grazia ('in favor'). To ingratiate yourself is to work your way into someone's good graces.
Root grat still carries 14 more wordsUsage Guide
- Almost always reflexive: ingratiate ONESELF with someone (or, less often, 'to' someone).
- Watch the prefix: here in- = 'into' (gaining favor), NOT the negative in- of ingrate ('unthankful'). Same spelling, opposite logic.
- Tone is usually disapproving — it implies calculated flattery, not genuine warmth.
Example Sentences
- 1.
He tried to ingratiate himself with the new manager.
- 2.
She ingratiated herself with the committee by praising their work.
- 3.
Flattering the boss is his usual way of ingratiating himself.
Easily Confused
ingratiate vs ingrate — Same root, opposite prefix logic. In ingratiate, in- means 'into favor' (to flatter your way in). In ingrate, in- means 'not' (someone without thanks). One seeks favor; the other gives none back.